On clericalism: the vocation of the laity?

Over the past few years, I have heard from many sides that the root of the problem is clericalism and the hierarchy. I have also heard that the solution is to allow women and married men to be ordained. This has given me food for thought. I have begun to wonder if another underlying issue is being ignored and in doing so we are avoiding seeing or acknowledging the real root of the problem: our collective forgetting about the nature of the vocation we are all called to and what that could mean for all the members of the mystical body of Christ. To illustrate an all too common narrative is useful: a young man or woman is seen to pray regularly, maybe even go to daily mass. She or he seems to be very interested in working for the church in some capacity, possibly as a volunteer or maybe even in a paid position. Everyone around that sees this asks them or assumes that this man or woman who prays intensely and helps out with 'x' prayer or formation group must be intending t...